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Change is the only constant

 So true when it comes to my life! This year started with changes. I wasn't expecting to sell my house, but when the opportunity came, I just had to take it up. In a couple of weeks, I 'll be homeless. Yes! No house under my name. How long? I have no clue. If I was on my own, it would have been fine but with 2 kids in tow, I can't help but wonder what life is going to be like from now. I don't know if I would have sold my place if I had not made plans to move in with my parents. Sometimes life has a funny way of  throwing me a curve ball when I least expect it. Maybe I should already expect that by now.  Few weeks before i was to move out, I figured out that I was not welcome to stay unless I met some conditions. Imagine!  I have been running a household perfectly well on my own, and now being told that only if I do a certain something, I will be able to stay. Otherwise I was not welcome. This brought me back to the time I was married. Given a similar ultimatum. I to...

First post for the year

  Why I did not think of blogging earlier beats me.  2021's manifestations seem to be taking effect now.  I am back in school. Something I wanted, with a light work load, at least it seems that way for now. House will be officially sold in March.  Income has increased.  With these changes, I will probably clear financial responsibilities that have overwhelmed me for the longest time; and move in to a home I have dreamed of. I am supposed to be over the moon but there's still a couple of things weighing me down.  I kind of miss the friends I used to have at Endeavour and I miss my quiet, morning routines - trying to overcome this by waking up even earlier to meditate and have my quiet time.  A little apprehensive about moving back with the parents- but I think it will help me to be patient and most importantly, save money to get my place earlier. More Income, also means longer working hours which is tiring and keeps me away from my dance and hikes - nee...